Showing posts with label Hot Potato. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Hot Potato. Show all posts

Sep 20, 2024

MY PHONE




 


I have a phone, smarter than I am, much of which I don’t understand, with messages arriving without my command.

We are told not to press buttons that appear unrequested.

Some are disguised and colourfully presented to look like those we love.

Yet they are created deliberately to entrap and attack us, with cruel, malicious, daylight robbery and uninvited calls.

Yet, conversely, we cherish our phones for emergencies, too, for communication, information, research, photography, for instant heritage and memory recall.

For every evil attack delivered to our phones, we have security barriers to contain the damage.

To repair them or produce new ones with more information we have to understand.

Working furiously to repeal and help keep us safe. Yet we have to take care to keep our curiosity in check.

Keep our fingers away from the talk button, to stop allowing viruses a way to start their attacks.

Perhaps we have to return to handwritten letters and no internet once more, however, I would find it very difficult without spell check.

I love my phone, yet I worry about the future. I hope I am wrong.



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Sep 9, 2024

LIFE




 


The needs of most of humanity are simple: a dwelling, however fragile, to call their own; steady, clean water, sanitation and food supply; clothing; good friends, love, family and a sense of belonging, with access to education and health services in a community setting.

Only a small minority of humanity seek and demand more, much more, using terror, pain, death and destruction of what the majority hold dear. 

Why?

We enter this world with nothing, and we leave with nothing, not even our bodies.



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May 13, 2024

MY RAINCOAT




 


am sitting here at home, waiting for the rain to ease so I can make a geriatric dash up the road to the club I try to go to every week. It’s called Café Square 1. Speed will be of the essence if I want to arrive remotely dry.

I am just waiting for the raindrops, splashing in a puddle visible from my window, to stop falling, or become light to minimal, before making my run.

I have a raincoat which is very efficient at keeping out the rain and cold, but its hood has the annoying habit of dropping over your eyes, leaving you sightless until you push it back up.

Unfortunately, it was not designed to stay on my head, despite all my attempts to stop it. It is very much a dry weather coat. I have made the decision now to buy a waterproof hat.

The rain has eased. I am off.



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Apr 12, 2024

HOT POTATO




 


Rapid change is encroaching on so many fronts that it’s becoming necessary to find methods to apply the brakes from time to time, allowing breathers in happy places, real or imaginary. 

Have you found yours yet? 

Here are some of mine!

Just waking up with someone I love is a very happy place for me.

Clasping a cup of tea, allowing moments of reflection, calm, and contemplation, is refreshing before more pressing demands creep in.

Greeting Lily, the cat who wishes to be mine, with love and an imaginary two-way conversation. If only she could really speak (though I have to acknowledge she has some great understanding moments).

Glancing out at the garden, connecting with the wild inhabitants, some of them regular visitors and neighbours, sources for topics or characters for my writings.

The postman’s knock on the door and the first outside human greeting, one shared for years between us. Official-looking post put to one side, for serious contemplation and discussion later.

These days, I long for a spell to relieve me of the time spent washing and dressing. I haven’t found it yet!

After breakfast, I slip into my very happy place, unzipping the stories waiting to be written and released, with fingers crossed that my very active computer gremlins will have found somewhere else to go to play their cruel games. 

Occasionally, this activity can be linked with a pyjamas day, a very good time.

Light housework at times takes me to a happy place when everything is turned back to tidy and welcoming again.

My day is split between two halves, talking to team members, Kelly and Jane in New Zealand in the morning, as we share problems, solutions and new ideas, plus comical giggles.

The end of the day is spent communicating with Anna in Portugal; she sometimes gives me new orders but mainly triggers reels of laughter.

Plus, importantly, we share how we are feeling and our families are coping. Just because we care and help does not mean we don’t hurt and feel the whole gamut of life events at times.

Working with this wonderful, widespread team gives us many happy moments.

The response from you, our readers, on Social Media, gives us the most pleasure: helping you to a happier place, real or imaginary.

Companionable conversation with my young man and Lily, with music we like, or a detective story, or environmental, historical or travel programme, leads to the end of a good day for us.



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Apr 5, 2024

A WOMAN I AM




 


A woman I am: a decision-maker, it is true; stubborn, with swings of mood, fiercely protective and with laughter often bubbling free. A lover, a wife, a mother, not always without mistakes, I have to admit to quite a few.

From birth, I have the unspoken, sacred honour to help populate this earth, this human place. To nurture and strengthen the young to know right from wrong. Working dawn to dusk to help place food on the table.

When I can, I work hard to introduce an educational plan. I work to keep finances firmly in place, to sustain and secure a future, safer for my children, safer than mine.

As a woman, I long for the banishment of physical and mental abuse that some suffer behind closed doors, and for happiness and love to gently flow.

Other women have remained single, through health or choice; a different path they might have had to follow.

The pressure is on for women to have more say and influence at home. To contribute to the community and nation in numerous, previously unimaginable, ways.

With age, I hope to fade away, leaving a mark on this human time, departing with the hope of seeing again those I have so fiercely loved and have had to sadly leave behind.



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Mar 17, 2024

HOT POTATO




 


Some of my Facebook friends, and Facebook itself, seem to have noticed a lapse in my regular postings. I have been struggling with a damaged left shoulder, and negotiating my way through the NHS to surgery and recovery at SWELOC A LEADING ORTHOPAEDIC CENTRE IN SURREY.

The biggest hindrance has been trying to dodge the pesky bugs both among staff and myself. How they manage to chop and change appointments all the time, to keep the bed spaces full and rotating, is nothing short of miraculous.

I have been treated with the utmost, surgical care and support, and am improving rapidly with the paced supervision of a physiotherapist.

My other injury is too dangerous to operate on, so I am working out the best way to manage it and carry on doing what I want to do as comfortably as possible.

I booked myself into THE RUSTINGTON CONVALESCENT HOME IN SUSSEX by the sea. A wonderful experience allowing me every opportunity to recover. Assisted with physiotherapy, excellent food, nursing reassurance, companionship, exercise, music and lots of that magical healing ingredient laughter.

Sadly this is not a free NHS service. It is not available generally to patients, some of whom I think could benefit from its gentle encouraging first week or few days of post-operative adjustment, especially for those who live alone.

We used to have quite a few dotted around the country, but sadly no more.

Now safely back home with my young man, I am writing again.

My love and understanding to all those of you struggling either, waiting for an operation or recovering from one. Patience is a word I will share with everyone, as we wait for your turn to come around.

Spread a little kindness and smiles while you can.



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Feb 20, 2024

LETTER TO FRIENDS




 


Yes, we are avid storytellers and listeners, which takes us into all kinds of situations: some very serious, others sliding us into delightful mixes of unrehearsed comedy. Those moments carry us through the tough times.

It is interesting to meet groups from other countries, with their reactions and behaviour when in a foreign country, which can cause total amazement. There seems to be, in some cases, before setting off, no research about the customs, food, health issues, or animals and insects to be aware of.

Your little story caused me to chuckle: to be mistaken for a lovely local English-limited Cambodian; brilliant! I loved your description of the temples, teak wood, white linen tablecloths, orchids, and enormous tree roots. I have memories of those, too. Bareback riding was also fun in those days, winding my way through rubber plantations, and arriving back exhausted. I wish I was a fairy and could fly back for a quick visit in peaceful times. Not sure it would be the same though!

I have often wondered about those devastated people, trying to pick up the pieces of totally wrecked lives after wars of any kind have moved on.

Music is a great soother and healer, slowly over time. So is the peaceful mingling of different nationalities, learning from one another about the past and talking about the future: bits to avoid, others to expand and share with kindness and love.

Thank you. You have both started my thoughts flowing, trying to ignore the insistent beat of war drums in different parts of the world. I would far rather listen intently for the imaginary beat of fairy wings.



© 2024 Penny Wobbly of WobblingPen

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Feb 17, 2024

A COMPLICATED DATE




 


It began with an enticing advertisement for Shen Yun, an amazing show of classical Chinese dance at the Apollo Hippodrome in Hammersmith, London.

With two of our young family having a birthday within days of one another, it seemed a great idea to go as a family. The adults agreed: let’s go!

Half the family were coming up from the coast, so I decided to hire a taxi to take us to the theatre. The first complication was that I had acquired an awful cold, two and a half weeks before the event, with my husband acquiring it two days before the show. I was deemed well enough to go, armed with cough sweets and a mask. My husband decided to stay at home as he felt unwell. 

So, we now had a spare seat to fill. I rang two friends but they were out. My husband suggested our neighbour, whom I had discounted as she had a husband and little lad. However, on asking, she said, “I’d love to go.” Even though she had very kindly offered to make us curry and the children a pizza for lunch, leaving us time to relax for a while before dressing up and setting off to the show, she was still keen to join us.

On the family’s arrival, they were minus one member, my daughter-in-law. She had been struck down by this vicious, disruptive bug. I was so sad for her, and disappointed, as she so deserved something nice. Then the hunt was on to find another person for the last ticket. The dilemma was solved by my lovely neighbour who asked, “Can we take my son?” “Of course we can, why didn’t I think of it immediately?” I replied. She asked her young son, and he was keen to join us.

Once lunch and relaxation were over, we changed and prepared ourselves for the trip to the theatre. The taxi arrived on time, with a lovely driver whom we conversed with all the way. Subjects covered were Pakistan, religion, a pharmaceutical company, marriage and change of occupation, re-training, taking up law, travelling to the UK, transferring to a law degree here, and working a taxi to pay for it. He dropped us right outside the theatre, and I asked before I left him, “What are you going to do now? Will you be taking us back?” He did not know; all he said was, “I’m hungry; I’ll find something to eat.” We thanked him, waved goodbye, and made our way into the theatre.

As it was a late booking, the seats I had booked were very high up inside the theatre. My son disappeared and returned, waving two tickets. “These are for you and me, Mum, to sit near the front. I asked if they could help me, as you were disabled and would find it difficult to make it up the many steps to the top.”

We sat six rows from the front and had a wonderful time watching the traditional Chinese stories told in dance and music. The costumes were amazingly beautiful in their subtle colours and the stage backdrops changed frequently, giving you the sense of early Chinese life. The dancers, both male and female, were very well drilled and moved elegantly, with acrobatics being performed effortlessly.

The intermission came so quickly. My son disappeared to see my neighbour and the children in the gods. I talked to a very nice lady who had left her husband at home, as he was uninterested in this type of entertainment. 

The orchestra returned to their places and began tuning up, and the theatre audience returned to their seats. I became very anxious at my son’s non-appearance, as we were in the middle of a row and his late arrival would disturb many people. Suddenly, he appeared in the gangway with my young granddaughter, who would be no disturbance to anyone. He retreated upstairs to join the others in the gods.

All too soon, the show was over. We clapped and clapped in praise of the performances which delighted everyone.

We waited until the bulk of the auditorium had emptied before standing up and looking for my son. As I turned, there was a beautiful, elegant, tall lady standing behind me. She had on a gorgeous brown dress decorated with gold lattice ribbon. She was on her own, so I asked her how she had liked the performance. She said it was wonderful and was glad to have come. I then said, “I hope you don’t find me rude, but I just have to say how beautiful you look, from head to toe.” She laughed, saying, “It said in the programme to dress up. So I made the effort.” 

I laughed, replying, “It allowed me to wear my new fake fur jacket. However, I refrained from wearing my mother’s paste tiara; I thought that might be a step too far.”

The family arrived and, once gathered together, we made our way to the taxi. There was our lovely driver waiting for us.

Once we were all seated and strapped in and the driver had eased our way into the busy traffic, I asked, “What did you do? Did you eat?” He laughed, “I had two callouts: one to Heathrow, the other to Kingston Hill. Yet I managed to eat some dates and drink some milk. Open the glove box in front of you,” he instructed, “and pass the box of dates around in the taxi.”

So, one delightful date turned into a tasty date of another kind, and a truly magical night.

Much to my amazement and delight, the children loved the performance and talked about it frequently.



© 2024 Penny Wobbly of WobblingPen

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Feb 15, 2024

HOT POTATO




 


OH, WHERE ARE THE TOOTH FAIRIES?


A painful, hidden condition that affects most of us at one time or another during our lifetime, toothache has been responsible for sleepless nights at the beginning of life, for both babies and parents.

At school, the discarding of our first baby teeth sets off a painful awakening of the need to keep our teeth spotlessly clean with regular personal care, something at that age we can often forget, while involved in the excitement of childhood.

As time goes on, damage to tooth enamel occurs, resulting in decay and agonising toothache, requiring fillings and, on occasion, extractions. Sometimes, the extractions are unnecessary, but the alternative dental treatment is unaffordable. Losing a tooth, by any method, is preferable to living with constant tooth and gum pain.

When multiple extractions take place, the shape of the face alters, making you look much older than you are. It lowers your feelings of self-worth and changes how other people react to you.

So, I ask again: where are the Tooth Fairies?

Free NHS services for many have been withdrawn, causing misery, time off work, and other conditions triggered by infections from rotting teeth. As seen on the BBC today, in Bristol, the desperate need has generated long queues, waiting for hours in very cold weather, outside a dental practice open for free NHS dental care. This is the tip of the iceberg. We cannot be a country where you are judged rich or poor by the quality of the care, or lack of it, of your teeth.

This problem has an economic bite: will the Government be the Tooth Fairy, prepared to restore this vital service to those in constant pain while being financially distressed?



© 2024 Penny Wobbly of WobblingPen

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Jan 26, 2024

HOT POTATO




 


Hello everyone. How do you feel at the moment, as our lives are being tested in many ways in different parts of the world?

It is time to strengthen family and neighbourhood ties so that together we can meet what is in front of us.

The weather has been playing an active, aggressive part: damaging our homes, water supplies and agricultural production. Wars are destroying more of our infrastructure, causing anxiety and desperation, and requiring help from total strangers as well as family.

I have just watched a lovely good news story on the BBC this evening, about a community coming together, more than 100 of them, to help an elderly disabled lady whose home had disintegrated during Covid and had been taken over by health-wrecking, all-encompassing mould.

She withdrew in shame from her community and was discovered by a friend. Thankfully, this friend galvanised their community to help and they did, magnificently. 

I wonder if more of us could get together to help someone in our own communities to a better life. It would give us something very worthwhile to do, as well as strengthen the links of friendship in the community.

Take care and be kind to one another when you can.



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Jan 2, 2024

THE BIRTH PANGS OF A NEW YEAR




 


The throng awaited, wrapped up in warm clothing, nudging together, backpacks full, bumping for space; standing by, watching for Big Ben to strike in the first minute of the New Year, heralding the first explosion of a magnificent firework display of some length, in celebration of the hope for a better year.

My young man and I sat, glasses in hand, watching and listening to the youthful exuberance and excitement spread before us on TV. Lily the cat withdrew to a bedroom, to curl up and try to avoid the nearby fireworks being released by local families. Thankfully, their display did not last too long; Lily's snores attested to that.

We shared these few minutes with Anna and her mother, in Lisbon Portugal, showing us Madeira and the cruise ships letting off fireworks, a traditional event. Next, we joined my family on the coast in Sussex and drank a toast with them, sharing the London fireworks and dancing from our armchairs, miles apart. The magic of the internet!

Finally, we called out our final wishes of love, switched off the TV and made our way to bed.

Arising first in the morning, I looked out the upstairs window to see a damp, grey day: no brilliant birth of a new year. Someone has to have a grey day was my thought as I went about the familiar mechanism of preparing breakfast for Lily and me; she was letting me know her hungry needs. My young man was still asleep upstairs, catching up after the late-night escapades. 

I quietly made my way, breakfast in hand, to sit and watch Breakfast Television. I flicked on the switch to be immediately in Japan with the announcement and views of a big earthquake, splitting homes in front of me. A tsunami warning was in place, urging the inhabitants to head for high ground and not to wait for anything or anyone. I watched in horror; poor people. 

The next item was another scene of an active devastation, and a promise by a leader to continue a war for another year with no let-up. Yet another country in unasked for hostilities was forced to retaliate against the destruction of the means to keep their population warm, fed and safe, with no sign of peace in sight. This was in the first few hours of the birth and celebration of the hoped-for better New Year.

My heart sank at the hopelessness of it all. I reached for the TV controller and just pressed anything for a moment's respite. I was now in Vienna in the company of the Vienna Philharmonic Orchestra, playing uplifting, beautiful Strauss music. It flowed through me and soothed me, showing a well-dressed colourful, smiling, clapping audience and flowers bedecking the walls.

My spirits rose, as did my confirmation of the enormous value of music, lyrics and singing, to raise the spirits in the most damaging circumstances. Examples abound in the First World War and the Second World War, where both troops and civilian populations were buoyed up by choral and popular music, plus singing and letters. Each and every war, no matter how small, has since taken comfort from them.

Revived, I rang a friend and asked if he knew a good news story I could use. He said, “Yes, I do!” I asked if he could share it with me. He then related this story:

A young boy, William, was killed by a hit-and-run driver in early December. His parents were devastated and they tried to make arrangements for his funeral. They wanted him to be buried in the grounds of a derelict church and a closed cemetery which he loved and where he escaped to spend most of his play time.

(I wondered where this ‘good news’ story was taking me.)

However, there were strict church rules which denied the grieving parents their wish for him to be buried there. They were greatly upset and worked hard to find a solution. A king, the new King Charles III, heard about their grief and, with his power as head of the Church of England, had the authority to change the rules, especially for them, and he did.

Sometimes, even in death, there is good news.



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Jan 1, 2024

I WISH, HOW I WISH




 


I wish I could summon up a spell.

Powerful enough to make everyone well.

Even if it’s only for twenty-four hours.

A real, worldwide, pain-free day.

To see bodies all twisted and sad,

Straighten up, and smile in amazement.

They would be so glad.

It might strengthen them to cope day by day.


The best I can do is inform with my pen.

Make sure the important information is in plain sight.

Signposting the right people to assist when they can.

Raising funds to crack the misery assailing everyone.

Perhaps then, one by one, my wish might come true.

When that terrible, isolating thing called pain

Would be pushed back into the past

And never again pop into view.



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Dec 30, 2023

A MUSICAL EXTRAVAGANZA TO THRILL




 


Post-Christmas, after the excitement and anticipation of festivities had faded, our family shared their goodbye hugs and greetings as we waved them off.

We settled back into the normality of the life my young man and I share with Lily, the cat who wishes to be mine. Surrounded with work to do, just what hundreds of families have to face after big family events.

We sat relaxing, drinking the restorative cup of tea, so necessary when reviewing the feelings the visit has stirred up. So many memories to tuck away and revive on other festive occasions.

The next day: bed washing, towel changing, and reviving, leaving the rooms all shipshape, ready for the next visitors, keeping the washing machine and dryer in constant action.

Reorganising everywhere: leftover food to be recycled, fridges and freezer to be cleaned and tidied; lists of things we have run out of and need to reorder for daily living; helping Lily to find her way hesitantly back into her favourite quiet places.

Thankfully, there is no rush for some of these tasks; they can be spread over a couple of days.

On Friday, a hospital visit was fitted in early and, on our return, I fell asleep, awaking mid-afternoon for a snack and a cup of tea.

It was then that a musical extravaganza appeared at the turn of a switch on the television. It was all-encompassing, mesmerisingly beautiful.

It was a production by Sky Arts of Phantom of the Opera at the Royal Albert Hall. I think it was in honour of Andrew Lloyd Webber. The minute the first wonderful notes, sung by amazingly trained singers, hit my ears, I was captivated.

The music beloved by millions, including me, carried me away, triggering my singing along with the wonderful lyrics, albeit much more quietly. The vocalists were superb, and the orchestra and chorus assisted their fantastic performances. 

My husband and I sat totally immersed in the music and the story until the intermission.

The orchestra started the music for the return to the story, except it was different: what now? Suddenly, Sarah Brightman appeared alone, singing the theme tune from the opera, and then four men in black suits joined her. They carried on singing singly and then together. I clapped my hands in delight, as I recognised the singers who had played the Phantom over the years. The audience gave each one the applause they so rightly deserved.

I said to my husband, “There’s one missing. I don’t see Michael Crawford.” Hardly had I spoken than Andrew Lloyd Webber and Cameron Mackenzie appeared to join everyone on the stage as they sang the last few lines as a group. Then, Michael Crawford appeared and was given the last word to sing, drawing the whole performance to an end. There were standing ovations, and applause so well deserved rang out. 

Music has the power to take you to any place you would like to go and bring you safely back again.



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Nov 27, 2023

MESSAGE FROM PENNY WOBBLY




 


The feeling of excitement as the last days of November slip away, and winter takes a grip from now on. As we work our way to the Christmas holidays for those at school. Extra clothing for those who are walking out and about, thin layers are best one on top of the other if you can.

Everyone this year will be taking extra steps to save money as best they can to pay for some extra bills. 

It might be helpful to research in the library for ways to help keep warm and eat healthily. Hot water bottles well covered might make a comeback, they certainly are a comfort to me.

Homemade soups are very sustaining and warming. Switch off plugs and gadgets you are not using. Play board games, cards and jigsaws instead if you are warm enough. You might find the companionship of winter evenings draws you closer to those you love.

Time to plan what you might want to do for your family Christmas. Time to put up a Christmas tree, to bring in cheer and goodwill into the home. We are going to bring ours down from the loft, to decorate it with love remembered from years gone by. When tying on baubles given by family members and friends now gone. So many memories good ones for us, are revived when dressing the  Christmas Tree.


Take care, love one another, and share where you can.



From Penny Wobbly and the WobblingPen team.

Sep 22, 2023

HOT POTATO




 


CINDERELLA’ISH TALE 


While sitting in a booth in a supermarket café in Worthing, anticipating my husband’s return from the dentist after a tooth extraction, I began preparing myself for a quick departure. 

The thought occurred to me that I needed some cash, and I decided to use the cash machine on the way out. I removed my debit card from my handbag, along with a WobblingPen card to give to our waitress who had been very kind. 

My husband appeared suddenly and I started to slide along the seat, only to dislodge my debit card onto the floor against the window. I uttered a cry of despair, as I knew my arms would not be able to reach it. 

Plan B: 

I would take off my flip-flop and slide the card along the floor with my foot. My young man said, “What are you doing?” as he waited with my three-wheeled walking aid. I tried to explain, but he had only one hearing aid in, as the other had gone for repair. So, instead of a dignified and quiet, “I am trying to retrieve my debit card; it is on the floor,” I had to say it loud enough for the whole café to hear.

“Oh for goodness sake, let me get it,”

I replied, “You can’t get down there; there is not enough room.” 

However, I was already sprawled on the settee, waving my foot and slowly dragging the card towards where he could grab it. By this time, I was on my back like an upside-down turtle, with the card almost there; thank goodness I was wearing trousers. Then a Prince Charming appeared: a gentleman from the next table. He could have been a basketball player, he was so tall. “Do not worry I can get it for you.” 

With that, he was under the table, retrieved the lost card, picked up my flip flop and replaced it on my foot. Once I had regained the upright position and regained my dignity, I said, “Now Cinderella shall go to the ball; the shoe fits.” 

The whole café burst into laughter. My poor husband said, “Thank you,” to the gentleman, and “Come on; let’s get out of here,” to me. I turned to my Prince Charming, saying, “Thank you for rescuing me. I would like to give you this WobblingPen card in thanks. I am a Storyteller and you might find something on the site to amuse you and your friend during boring travelling time waits.” They were delighted; we shook hands and left, heading for the cash machine. 

I hate cash machines and normally use them only in the bank or Post Office, but need must. “Please do not gobble up my card, or flood me with too many things to press, and yes, I do want a receipt, thanks.” 

Talking to the machine: do you do that? I can’t be the only one! 

Thankfully, someone thought I had had enough for one day, and cash and receipt appeared on command. We then made our way, uneventfully, back home.



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Sep 11, 2023

WOULD YOU BELIEVE IT, OF COURSE YOU WOULD




 


Another well-organised day that unravelled itself into chaos.

I arose early to sort out Lily the cat who wishes to be mine, and almost is, and have some playtime with her, before a hectic schedule of events.

First, my carer was late not her fault, they scheduled a client at an impossible travelling distance to one another, unless you used a helicopter. 8am became 9am. To almost 10am.

I asked my cleaners to come earlier as I was expecting old friends on a visit at 10.30. They kindly arranged to arrive at 9am. So with both events activated for 9am, everyone was using the bathrooms and water at the same time. My husband and I showered upstairs and down, cleaner nipping in where we had vacated.

Finally, everyone had completed what they had to and restored the house to order. The carer left first, and then we heard a great deal of big vehicle backing noises. On investigating saw a large lorry with hoisting equipment trying to manoeuvre in through the gates to deliver some hefty concrete slabs for the next-door's new kitchen build.

The only problem was they had not notified us of their intentions, and very successfully trapped my cleaning team, unable to proceed to their next client.

As the lorry backed out, it just grazed one of the gate pillars knocking the top and the electric light out of place.

Just as we absorbed that situation, a message arrived on my iPad. Our friends were frazzled after a night of hotel evacuation, due to fire alarms being triggered by a guest smoking in the bedroom. Three times they were alerted with one full evacuation in their bed attire.

So they asked if they could come a little later. 11.15am. Disaster the time gap was narrowing, as we had to leave at 12.45am for Worthing for a dental appointment for my young man at 2.15pm.

The little lad across the road brought him from school unwell to join the community and parking chaos.

Some a passable cold lunch was prepared and shared together before we had to separate and go our ways. 

Hugging our guests and waving them off, before racing to lock up the house and leave ourselves. However, a great big concrete mixer arrived blocking out the lane, where my young man had parked our car. Stalemate, the driver had to back into the main road to let us out. It was a tight squeeze but we made it.

At last, we were out in the open road heading for the dentist, for my young man and to see our adopted family on their return from their holiday in Rhodes. We listened as they related all their.

The rest of the day passed uneventfully, with a companionable, drive home in the dark. Until almost home when a warning light came on the dashboard to warn of a tyre problem. Thankfully we had just purred into our drive at this point and decided to let sleeping dogs lie till the morning.



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Jun 19, 2023

HOT POTATO




 


Hello Wobblers


I hope you have been managing to dodge the pesky bugs, high pollen counts, and poor air quality ratings that have been attacking parts of the world at the moment. They tend to disrupt our ability to enjoy some really beautiful summer days. 

However, we are glancing upwards, looking for the life-reviving showers of rain to break the drought. The other half of the world is trying hard to keep warm and dry, some places receiving more than their fair share of that essential commodity, rain, impacting the harvests necessary for next year. 

The wars still grind on and humans seem to destroy more than they build. I’m not sure that is true; it just seems that way, disrupting peaceful living, and dispersing families, sometimes forever. 

However, amongst this devastation, in the most unlikely places, hope finds a way through. The human spirit has the most amazing capacity to seize the moment and thrive. 

Some see the need to be politically aware and to hold politicians to account on promises they make which require large sums of money. These promises are impossible to attain, with the funds unaccountably vanishing. If you pay, it is reasonable to have a say on how your contributions are spent and accounted for. The only way is to attend your local council and government meetings to make sure your votes count and see that the person you vote for has your and your nation’s best interests at heart. 

Yet there are some fantastic friendships being made at sports events around the world, enjoyed by all ages and races, breaking down the invisible barriers, the unspoken taboos. Some run or play out of their comfort zones, in memory of a loved one, raising much needed research and community funds. 

Huge musical events, so uplifting, encourage thousands to join together to dance and sing, with hidden benefits of friendship and sharing of ideas to take home to benefit their communities and themselves. There is love, too, swirling about, as first encounters progress through time to more meaningful relationships. 


My two good news stories this month revolve around a need being fulfilled. 

The first is about a blood test which has the potential to single out fifty different types of cancer, allowing them to be specifically targeted without invasive, painful and unnecessary testing, and is now being trialled in different countries to see if it lives up to expectations. If it worked in only half that number of cases, it would be wonderful. If it reaches what is hoped for, it will seem like a miracle to many. 

My second is matching a need at both ends of our life cycle: loneliness, housing support and comfort. There are the young who need to leave home for whatever reason, who cannot afford or are denied a place in the diminishing supply of accommodation, putting them at risk of exploitation and fear. 


Then there are the elderly who, through a multitude of circumstances, sometimes find themselves alone, in a home too big for them, in need of company and some support. There is an umbrella organisation called Home Share, which has links to 25 similar organisations, who carefully match an elderly person with a young adult. They compare and match lifestyles and needs as much as possible and keep, as I understand it, a watching brief; there is a fee. I first saw this in an interview on the BBC and thought it was a great idea; the participants thought so, too. 

What good news stories can you share with us? Have a think and let's increase the amount of good news being shared by us on the internet. 


Thank you all, old and new friends, for following us, and supporting, reading and sharing stories and poems here with us. Thank you to the WobblingPen team for the hours spent putting together our pages for everyone to enjoy. Thank you also for the friendship, fun, joy and laughter we share while doing it. 

Our world needs more and more unrecorded TRUE good news stories, to balance up the bad; to be sent out onto the internet, to increase the knowledge and incentive of the TRUE goodness and value of humans to themselves and to others, taking the premise that it is the little things that count. 

AI is here: let’s give it good things to think about. Let’s promote the best things of being living, caring, human beings; no computer can TRUTHFULLY replicate that. 

Become living storytellers wherever you are. 

Take care, stay safe and share things when you can, the best being to pass a smile along. 


© 2023 Penny Wobbly of WobblingPen

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Jun 1, 2023

OH CALAMITY, CALAMITY!




 


It started as a good deed, kindly meant, ending in disaster.

My husband was not feeling well, so I sent him up to bed, as wives do.

After a goodly interval, I thought I would take up a tray with a bowl of tomato soup and a slice of buttered bread.

I set off, carefully, till I was one step from the last tread when my shoulder jerked and the bowl flew into the air and disappeared down the stairs, followed by the tray and slice of bread.

I clung on with desperation to the bannister rails, the rest of me dangling free.

Hoping my arthritis would allow me to hang on long enough to gain purchase before I followed the rest of the debris down into the hall: not nice at all.

My cries of anguish brought my husband from his bed to organise a rescue and try to get me to rest on the bed.


How could I? 

With tomato soup dripping where it ought not to, on carpets up and down, as well as on the stair walls. 

It even found its way with artistic bent through the spindles, to drip down the cupboard door in rivulets into the hall. 

Before making a last gasp spread with dramatic effect to paint the open kitchen door with bright red tomato soup and upset the normal very plain kitchen floor.

Looking at the complete disaster, I wailed at my good deed gone wrong. 


What to do, what to do? 

My young man came to the rescue. “Call Nick, our window cleaner man.”

I phoned and he said he would come around to see what he could do. “How bad is it?” he asked.

“Just awful!” was my reply.


On his arrival, he looked in and said, “It does not look too bad,” thinking I was a panicking female, till I said, “Come right in.” Only then was the extent of the disaster really seen.

“Oh my, you have made a really cracking job of it.” On every tread on the way down, spots and splashes of tomato soup could clearly be seen. 

The grand finale was the soup bowl upside down, leaving a spectacular tomato soup ring when retrieved from another part of the carpet in the middle of the hall.

It took hours of scrubbing and cleaning and, the next day, they came back with their big carpet-cleaning machine. 

Finally, the evidence of the catastrophe was erased from the scene.

However, my arms and torso are still complaining at being left dangling over the abyss in the hall. 



© 2023 Penny Wobbly of WobblingPen

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May 27, 2023

FISH POND DISASTER




 


Of course, it would have to be the hottest day so far that the fish pond pumps ground to a halt. Emergency action required by two with no sense, out in the midday sun.

The unwinding of the net so we could have a good inspection. Separating the weed, to grab the rope to pull the pump onto the edge of the pond. All kinds of water creatures, made hasty escapes, into water puddles or with a plop, back into the pond.

This is the time H, goes into his rant, the script never changes. 'We are too old for this, let's get rid of the fish. It is a filthy job.'

My contribution is silence until it is repeated too often with the addition of colourful language. 

'Enough! You know how much we love their presence, floating around in the pond. It is so relaxing, watching them and listening to the water fountain splashing. You would miss them! You know you would!'

Open pump, fierce hose spray, wire brush scrub, reassembled. Dangled back into the pond, on the end of a rope, before reattachment.

Attention is given to the other end, the big dustbin-sized filter. Another hose pipe attached turned on. Followed by human strenuous exercise of rotating a handle, to move the foam balls inside to release the unmentionable dross into a flower bed, then to another and another. Good for all concerned.

Only one problem. It is still not giving us enough output, to cheer a fantastic fountain. A bit of a damp squib.

Hot sun, stopped play, investigation to be resumed when the sun's heat starts easing off for the day. We just have to have faith in our abilities to fix it, before dark and mosquito attacks.

We are still conversing, in a civilized manner and the fish know H, did not mean it. They are here to stay permanently as usual.



© Penny Wobbly of WobblingPen

May 11, 2023

KITCHEN AFFAIRS




 


I was trying to distance myself from the present, as I was standing in my kitchen with all the cupboard doors and drawers off. Tools and sawdust all over the place. Plus the knowledge there was going to be no speedy completion. 

My darling young man forgets we are approaching the end of the life spectrum. His days of magnificent carpentry and do-it-yourself skills have long passed. 

We need skilled tradesmen and deep pockets to dip into to pay the larger-than-expected bill presented. That is if you are lucky enough to find good tradesmen, as at the moment there is a dearth of them all over the world. 

Hence my first answer: looking into the future was a good idea, anticipating a beautiful kitchen, but with no ready-by date on the horizon. Frustration!



© 2023 Penny Wobbly of WobblingPen

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